As an adult how do we feel when someone praises us or comfort us with good words in our bad days. Good right? Well, we need to keep this in our mind when it comes to kids as well! Kids are a clay and we as an adult act as a potter for them as we are the one who is responsible for molding them and help them become a better individual during their growth years.
Kids are very tender and needs the most care, while we may pay more attention to a sums they do wrong, but in that moment we also need to motivate and appreciate their efforts and say kind words.
By doing this not only it makes the kid happy but nurtures their emotional intelligence.
LETS SEE THE PHRASES WE CAN SAY OR THINGS WE CAN DO AS A TEACHER OR A PARENT TO MAKE A CHILD CONFIDENT:
1. To appreciate their hard work and efforts:
We can use phrases like- I can see you improve, you are putting in a lot if effort, your hard work will reward you, it is ok if it didn’t workout at least you tried, focus on the process and not only on the results.
2.To make them feel confident:
We can use phrases like- You got this, every experience matters, losing means you can try again, you are incredible, thank you for your help, you did this job very well, etc.
3. To make them feel loved:(Parents)
As a parent we can use phrases like- Even if I get angry I will always love you, you make me happy, you can always reach out to me, I am blessed to have you as my child, etc.
Sometimes we forget to say what we mean or we don’t know how to say the good things, one can utilize this to keep children feel wanted and loved.